Have you ever noticed that people and businesses are exactly the same?
They both operate from patterns—coping strategies that once worked, but often leave them stuck.
Last summer, my husband and I viewed over 100 houses in just two months. It was overwhelming—time-consuming, exhausting, expensive. We couldn’t decide. Everything blurred together. Panic started setting in.
Then a friend gave us one powerful suggestion:
Write down the top 5 non-negotiables you’re looking for in a home.
Simple. Clear. Focused. So we did.
That same week, a new listing came up—it checked every box. A couple months later, we walked through the doors of what is now our home. Almost a year later, we love it even more than we imagined. It’s not perfect—some things need fixing, updating, or just patience. But the clarity of our criteria—and the flexibility to grow with the home—made all the difference.
And that’s when it hit me:
Finding a home is exactly like being in a relationship.
Whether it’s a business partnership, friendship, or intimate relationship—we start out exploring with curiosity. We want to know how this person (or team) operates. What’s their style? Their rhythm? Their values?
But then something happens. The “honeymoon phase” ends.
And suddenly, the quirks aren’t cute anymore.
The flexibility disappears.
The criteria list becomes a weapon, not a guide.
And all we want is to go back to how it used to feel.
We try to recreate the spark.
But all we get is frustration, blame, resentment… and loneliness.
So what if the solution isn’t about fixing the other person?
What if the solution is updating your inner operating system?
What if curiosity—not control—is the key?
That’s where hypnosis comes in.
How would you like to discover how you can show up with clarity, compassion, and calm?
Because let’s face it:
If you don’t pause to reprogram your internal compass, you’ll keep jumping from house to house, relationship to relationship, job to job—searching for a feeling that only comes from within.
At Hamilton Hypnosis, we help people rewrite the scripts that keep them stuck.
Curious? Let’s talk.
Book your free consultation today and discover how a little subconscious renovation can create big change.
